Monday 5th December
After a lovely evening spent playing cards with Anne & Paul, we arranged to meet this morning for morning tea at Art Trio which we have been told that you have to experience the excellent service offered. However, those plans were scuppered when we found that the Cafe is closed on a Monday. Never mind, plan B, head out to Nosh for lunch after a spot of shopping at the Lolly Shop in Waimate. Another surprise, a lovely lunch awaited us at Nosh Cafe on SH1 at the turn off to Waimate. We all enjoyed a lovely leisurely lunch before it was time for us all to get back to the real world. As we had missed out on Art Trio, we decided to stay in Waimate another night to enjoy morning tea there tomorrow.
Tuesday 6th December
Art Trio Cafe lived up to the reviews we had heard, they certainly know how to treat a customer, and their coffee is good too! We bade farewell to Anne & Paul, wishing Paul all the best for his heart surgery on Friday.
Time to head off, by this time we had heard that sister-in-law Ann was in Oamaru hospital so back to our usual position at the Oamaru Race Course. Ann was diagnosed with cancer a couple of weeks ago (the reason we returned to Oamaru earlier) and was in Oamaru hospital as her pain medication needed updating. She was home again on Wednesday and things were looking up.
Thursday 8th December
I had organised to use Mike & Ann’s house to cook dinner for them and for Mum & Dad. What they all did not know was that brother John and his daughters Julie & Jenny were arriving as the surprise dinner guests. John was on a trip around the South Island with his girls and just seemed the perfect opportunity for us to have a wee get together. A great evening was had, before we all retired to our abodes at a reasonable hour as Mike & Ann had an early start in the morning heading off to specialist appointments in Dunedin.
Friday 9th December
We spent the day around Oamaru, with John and the girls joining us for dinner and an evening of playing cards. Yes, Julie & Bernice reign as Sequence champs!
Saturday 10th December
Another day at the race course, John and the girls joined us again for dinner and more cards, this time Crib was the game of choice. Let us just say that the male member of the visiting party needs to hone up on his card playing skills!
We also heard from Mike that the news of Ann from Dunedin was not good. We are all devastated.
Sunday 11th December
Off to Helen & Don’s for dinner tonight. Ann back in Dunedin hospital.
Monday 12th December
A day spent around Oamaru, getting on with bits and pieces.
Tuesday 13 December
Off to Dunedin, we end up at the Wingatui Racecourse – what is it with us and Race courses? Off to see Ann.
Wingatui parking.
Roy’s greatgrandfather and his third wife had on many occasions in the 1880s and 1890s bid for and successfully obtained the rights to provide food and drink at this course on race days.
Wednesday 14 December
Decide to move form the race course, to the A&P showgrounds not too far away. Much nicer surrounds. Then off Christmas Shopping – yuck! Back up to see Ann, news worst possible. Deterioration over the last week has been huge. Emotions running through the gamut today.
Parked at the A & P Showgrounds
Budding Show Jumpers having their day in the field at the Showgrounds.
The following week was spent visiting Ann, keeping an eye on Mike, Natalie & Stuart and doing what we could, which seemed to be very little and we have never felt so goddam useless. Ann was transferred to the Otago Community Hospice where she spent her last few days. She passed away in the early hours of Tuesday 20th December.
Back up to Oamaru but Roy broke a tooth so we had to wait until he had visited the dentist …kaching, kaching! Back to our usual spot at the racecourse. The next couple of days was spent organising family and friends. Friday 23rd December we bade a fond farewell to our dear friend, sister-in-law and pal Ann. Ann’s brother Donald wrote and read the following very good poem at the service;
Ode to Ann
My Beautiful sister by Donald Lunjevich
Ann was born in ‘52
The second of a litter of four
And two lovely step sisters
Whose Dad was killed in the war
An older good looking brother
A younger one Frank who was fine
And then a younger sister Carol
Born when Mum was past her prime
To Herekino Primary School
At 5 she was sent
A quiet girl – well behaved
A model student
Then boarding at St Marys Catholic School
4 years she had a bed
No boys or bad behaviour
Or smoking behind the shelter shed
Old Sister May Leo
She didn’t have a show
To train a Lunjevich to sing
Is just a waste of dough
Then to Dental Nurses School
To learn all sorts of things
And earn some money so she could
Go out and spread her wings
A real nice girl and pretty too
It was no great surprise
That boys did start to hang around
Like a lot of flies
But straight up through the middle
Came a guy called Mike
Dad, Frank and I tried to get him
To take a giant hike
But Mike knew what he wanted
He wasn’t backing down
And Ann? Well she was smitten
Mike wasn’t leaving town
After a little courting
The wedding bells rang
Mike the pommie brother-in-law
Did join the Lunjevich clan
Mike, Alan, Frank and I
I don’t know if it’s the norm
All seen to have this thing
For girls in sexy nurses uniform
Mike strutted like a cockerel
Ann made a nest of hay and reed
Uh oh its springtime in the air
The pair are going to breed
First out popped little Natalie
Then a stumpy Stu
Mike said to Ann “we’ve got perfection
So we’ll stop at two”
Now Natalie is grown and beautiful
Working for the IRD
She will have to take the mantle
As the Coatham family Queen Bee
Stuart’s pretty clever
Knows the difference between a left and right hand thread
Came back from London with a pretty Aussie girl
And a shiny head
Ann was thrilled when the bassinets filled
Patchwork quilts by the load
Whoop-di-do surprise, surprise
10 fingers and 10 toes
They were getting older
And thought their time had come
To make a move – change the speed
And have a bit of fun
It took some time, a plan, a dream
To figure out what to do
We’ll shift by Mum, up the road
To Awamoa Road, Oamaru
Ann could be a tricker
Ann could be a hoot
Trick me every time she could
To make me eat beetroot!
And so just to get her back
As silly as it seems
I don’t call Renee, Renee
I call Renee, Irene!
You’re leaving Irene and Toby
That’s pretty hard to see
And even worse I’m thinking
There’s going to be number 3.
Ann you dirty rotten stop out
You know we love you so
We will never forget you
But we will let your body go.